After a breakup from a serious relationship, you often tend to suffer for a long time. The length of the time depends on how serious you were in the relation. During this period, you're pained a lot, so many minute things make you remember her that it gets impossible to get her out of your mind. After a lot of trouble begins a phase where you slowly start getting back to your regular life and start thinking less about her. This is the phase of getting over them. You would realize that you have started forgetting her and this is what people call getting over someone but actually,you never get over someone, its just that your brain develops a habbit of not thinking about them anymore, but when someone or something prods it up, somewhere a pain starts again. The love for the person never really dies, its not that you want to get back with her,no, not at all. It is the value you give to the relationship. You would want to continue to be with that exact same person with whom you had those wonderful moments, but its not the same person now, the character has changed now. The warm pleasant feeling is no more present.
If you're lucky enough, after a breakup you accidentally find someone who loves you more than ever. She could be the one who would help you in the process of getting over that someone. If this happens, then that is the best thing that would have ever happened to you.
